Are douchebags becoming a nationwide pandemic?

Hey y'all! In addition to my blog I've recently begun posting on Twitter about my daily message mishaps on all the "fabulous" dating apps/sites and what I've discovered is that dudes nationwide are generally big ole asshats. I've met two fellow Twitterers(is that right?) and their posts confirm that this generation of daters is seriously lazy. Nowadays guys don't even expect to pick up a bar tab to get laid, all they have to do is reach out on Tinder and ask "do you wanna get fucked hard?". The sad thing about this is, there HAS to be females out there that say "well, as a matter of fact, yes I do." Girls, ladies, women...if y'all are the ones saying yes to this, you are part of the reason that the dating community is in such dire straits. Dudes, quit being lazy and actually take a girl out, pay for her drinks/dinner or whatever and if the sparks are flying then by all means, get busy. Ladies...EXPECT the men to do this for you. You can have high expectations for yourself without expecting them to be perfect. You should have expectations for the guy you date because what if you end up with this person for life? Don't you wanna be happy for the long haul? I just don't get it and it's beyond frustrating that we (guys and girls) think this "hookup culture" is acceptable. It's not and you should want more for yourself and every other single person out there.